Our (Late) Christmas, Part I

I want to thank everybody for their kind comments on the blog, and also there’s a lot of people to thank for other forms of generosity during what has been a trying time.

Here’s how the rest of December looked, in pictures… the first a bonus picture that really belongs in an earlier entry.

This is it. This is the definitive picture of Ian meeting Nina. Melissa was in bed, my arms were full and so were Marcia’s… Grampa Dave pulled off this picture and so this is it! (Earlier pictures that I posted were either of their second meeting, or minutes after this one was taken. See this image larger.

December 27th was our Christmas Eve, as everything had been postponed due to a little surprise visitor! Here she’s prepped and ready to head home… her first trip in a car seat! See this image larger.

My sleeping beauties! See this image larger.

When Ian looks this bored watching “Tad’s Christmas” for the 40th time, you know we’ve all pretty much got it memorized! See this image larger.

Grampa Dave happily inspects the first female Chapman (that didn’t marry into the name) in 4 generations. (I think.) See this image larger.

I know that someday she’ll emerge as a beautiful butterfly! See this image larger.

Something scared the mittens right off of her! See this image larger.

At this point, we were all blissful and tired… more in Part II!

December in a Flash, Part II of II

December 20th. A quick trip to Meijer yields happy results with Santa and Mrs. Claus. See this image larger.

Also December 20th, Ian and I rock out to Guitar Hero: Van Halen. He likes it more than I thought he would. See this image larger.

December 24th. It feels somehow like years ago, but this was the night we woke up at 3, and arrived at the hospital by 5:30 before Nina was born. At the time, however… dance, sugarplums, dance. See this image larger.

“Jinglebells!” See this image larger.

Whoa kiddo! Over-jingling! See this image larger.

*So seriously, I was a good-boy, right?* See this image larger.

Christmas kitty sings, Ian dances. See this image larger.

December in a Flash, Part I of II

I want to thank you all for your prayers and thoughts regarding Nina… The short of the story at this point is that her chromosome test came back “normal” and we can focus on praying for her heart, which is a major issue to contend with still — we’re not out of the woods yet, but some of the scariest trees are already behind us. More about this in the entries to follow, I promise. For now I’ve got a lot of catching up to do, so we need to turn the clock back to the beginning of December! (I know, you’re not happy with that, sorry!)

NOTE: This entry will be moved shortly to its appropriate place chronologically.

December 4th, and Ian wakes up to a rude surprise! See this image larger.

“Wha?” See this image larger.

Snow! And like six inches of it, all at once! See this image larger.

Am I the only person that thinks there are miniature Marge Simpsons outside the window? See this image larger.

December 6th. Those breakdancing lessons are really paying off. See this image larger.

December 7th. That hat doesn’t fit anymore, silly! See this image larger.

December 17th. Ian’s daycare’s Christmas program… someday I’ll have video. I’m afraid you may not find it all that interesting, as Ian decided on the way to the concert that “I’m not gunna sing.” See this image larger.

December 18th. *Daddy, this present is flat. It can’t be any good.* See this image larger.

With the wily grace of an elephant, Ian attempts to pilfer somebody else’s cookie. Not yet, kiddo. See this image larger.

Story time! See this image larger.

During the book exchange, Ian managed to pick a Curious George book, which was great because he has been on a George kick lately. (He loves the books, not the TV show, believe it or not.) See this image larger.

*Nuthin’ up my sleeve…* See this image larger.

“CANDY!” See this image larger.

*More?* See this image larger.

Finally, Ian gets his cookie! See this image larger.

Nina Noel, Part III: Homecoming

Finally the morning of the 27th dawned, and it was time for Nina to come home. See this image larger.

I remember this part with Ian as well… the clock strikes the time at which you should be allowed to go home, and you have to wait for somebody to check you out and tell you things. See this image larger.

With Ian I think I packed up my camera and un-packed it a few times. With Nina I kept it out until the last minute. See this image larger.

Diaper looks a little big on her doesn’t it? See this image larger.

And finally to the car seat… See this image larger.

…and home. This is not the first time Ian saw his little sister, nor the first time he touched her — but it did look like the first time he understood a little bit about what was truly going on here. Love this picture. See this image larger.

The traditional kitty/baby photo.. thanks Grandma Marcia for catching this one! See this image larger.

The bouncy chair returns! See this image larger.

Welcome home, little girl. See this image larger.

Nina Noel, Part II: When Ian met Nina

If you’re just arriving, please scroll way down and start at the first part of this story, we have plenty of photos. In fact, you might want to consider getting yourself a beverage and a package of chips while the pictures load.

We moved from the delivery room over to the recovery room, exhausted; especially Melissa, who was a complete champ. Another delivery with no drugs! See this image larger.

Not too long after Melissa’s water broke (3am) we called Grampa Dave and Grandma Marcia (5am) and asked them to come to Rockford a little sooner than they had planned, for Christmas. I’ll tell it all in the long version of the story, but wow, do we owe them a great many thanks! This picture is still later on delivery day, the 25th… See this image larger.

We’re all smiles that our little girl is safe and sound. Ian’s initial reaction was one of excitement, curiosity, and maybe a little fear. Marcia was happy as a clam, and you should have seen her keep up with Ian! See this image larger.

Somebody loves her Mommy, already. See this image larger.

One of the outfits that Aunt Leslie sent to us happened to be a “baby’s first Christmas” one-piece… so we HAD to try it on her for this photo opportunity later on Christmas day. You can start to see her head changing shape a little here. You might even see a slight resemblance to Ian if you squint and pretend she’s bald. See this image larger.

I came home for dinner (Marcia saved me from hospital food!) on the 25th, so that Ian wouldn’t feel abandoned by his parents, and then turned around and went back to the hospital to sleep in the cot next to Melissa’s. On the 26th I came home for a little bit, and we drove as two cars over to the hospital again. Here Ian tries on Grampa Dave’s boots — turns out they’re a little large. See this image larger.

Finally our little family is more or less complete. Collect us all! See this image larger.

*So uh, she doesn’t like… make this noise all the time or anything, right?* (Thanks Gpa Dave for that caption.) See this image larger.

Grandma Marcia enjoys her new grand-daughter, who demands a high-five! See this image larger.

Quite possibly the bravest woman on Earth holds tight to a Christmas present that surprised us all. See this image larger.

Ian was very alert within about a week of coming home, or maybe a few days. This little girl seems to be tracking things right out of the gate. Here she gives Grampa Dave a peep. See this image larger.

This little girl is not going to suffer from a lack of love! See this image larger.

It is hard enough to keep a child entertained and happy at a hospital… Ian did pretty good under the circumstances! Here Ian finds Grampa Dave in a hallway. See this image larger.

Grandma Marcia has been a brilliant help with Ian — here she gives us another much-needed five minutes. See this image larger.

Ian has this look on his face – “Level with me here… I’m in trouble, right?” See this image larger.

It is shocking the number of changes her face has gone through in the handful of days that she’s been alive. Her facial features are rounding and softening. At the beginning of all of this, she didn’t look like Ian much at all, but I’m really starting to see a resemblance now. Here I’m studying those changes. See this image larger.

Ok, now THAT is a cute baby. Do I need to draw a halo above that head, or can you see it in your imagination too? See this image larger.

All of us spent some serious time making sure Ian understood what was going on with his new sister, and Ian was an incredible trooper. See this image larger.

Here Melissa explains that there is no love lost with our little man. See this image larger.

Home again, Ian and Grampa Dave play the “pillow squash” game. See this image larger.

Coming home in the evening yet again helped Ian not feel as abandoned by his parents, and gave Melissa time to bond with little Nina back at the hospital… I also got a chance to sleep, which could come in handy in the days to follow. See this image larger.

And obviously some quality time with Grampa Dave and Grandma Marcia is its own reward! See this image larger.

The Rest of November 2009, Part III

Finally a smattering of other pictures… I believe these are from November 29th…

Ian did give us that “first glimpse of the tree this year” face, but really this was just finding it decorated. See this image larger.

I love that look… he’s in awe! See this image larger.

He’s a pretty funny kid, seriously. See this image larger.

This dog is from his first Christmas… it has taken on the persona of “Dug” from Up. If you haven’t seen the movie Up, you owe it to yourself to see it, if for nothing else for Pixar’s masterful animation of a cartoon dog. See this image larger.

The Rest of November 2009, Part II

November 28th… and it is time for some fun in and around the bathroom… See this image larger.

Ian tries on some spiky hair! Surprise!!! See this image larger.

*What does a dinosaur say, Ian?* See this image larger.

Our family really enjoys laughing and making each other laugh. It is good for all of us. See this image larger.

Alright kid, your hair is a mess… See this image larger.

Should we do something about that? See this image larger.

Here comes the brush!!! See this image larger.

Whoa! That was quick! See this image larger.

Let’s see those teeth. See this image larger.

brusha brusha See this image larger.

Alright buddy, off to bed with you, good job! See this image larger.

The Rest of November 2009, Part I

Given that Ian periodically stops napping for days on end, I figured we’d never again see that look of wonder as he falters down the stairs, the one we get when he first gets a glimpse of the tree… as it turns out, I was sorta wrong — but you won’t get to see that shot yet. See this image larger.

Anyway, as I said, I figured I wouldn’t get a good face like that, so instead I had Ian help me build the tree. He was a fantastic help, and a very-well behaved listener. I’ve got a great video that I’ll share someday. Here Ian adds the first “ornament” on November 23rd. See this image larger.

November 24th, and the lights are on, and the camera is out! See this image larger.

My camera loves to focus on Christmas lights instead of the subject in front of the Christmas lights. Someday I’ll figure that out. See this image larger.

Dangit, blurry again. See this image larger.

Great smile! See this image larger.

Running around, again! See this image larger.

This is either “shy” or “itchy diaper.” See this image larger.

Thanksgiving Epilogue

Well, a lot of time has passed since Thanksgiving, now, and we have a lot of catching up to do. Most of the time has been spent with Melissa, Ian and I all being sick with symptoms that are only beginning to clear up now, almost a month later!!! So we’ll play catch-up after this one final Thanksgiving 09 moment!

Click here to watch the video!

Pre-Thanksgiving Thanksgiving, Part VII

The final part of our Thanksgiving extravaganza, the Christmas fashion show! I should probably just let these speak for themselves, but suffice to say there was a stairway, and bed-jumping shoot. And I also want to say thanks again to everybody for driving out to see us, and that we had a great time! Thanks also to Connor for playing games with his uncle D.

Somebody cue up Christmas fashion show music! Sing along if you know the words as well as I do… Go!

*O Christmas tree, o Christmas tree…* See this image larger.

*something something branches* See this image larger.

*O Christmas tree, O Christmas tree*See this image larger.

*hmm hmm hmmm mmmm mumble branches*. See this image larger.

*Your something Frankie Valentine* See this image larger.

*is something something, Frankenstein* See this image larger.

*O Christmas tree O Christmas tree* See this image larger.

*again that thing about branches.* See this image larger.

Finally, our two bonus pictures: Ian puts on the Sorting Hat and is chosen for Griffondor. (About 10 people got that joke.) See this image larger.

Ian already misses his cousins… Hope you all had a happy Thanksgiving! (Isn’t this a great smile?) See this image larger.

©2025 Copyright - Out Of Their Minds Design, LLC