Boys Will Be(come) Boys

Since Ian moved to his new class a great many things have changed about him, and it has really only been a few days. His old class was mostly girls, and younger. Now he’s running with boys that, you know, do boy stuff. So he’ll sometimes pick his nose, and if he can get away with it, he’ll attempt to pick my nose; just as an example.

The good:

• Ian is saying or trying to say a lot more. The noises coming out of his mouth are more varied and it is allowing him to more closely mimic what Melissa and I are saying. Just this week he’s solidified saying “woof woof” for a dog and has started saying “duck” again. He also says “ROWR!” in regards to animals that roar. The times I’ve written about him saying a word in the past, they were typically one-offs. Now he’s actively repeating words that he learns. So this is a very good thing.

• In general he’s mastering physical stuff a bit better, although this was never really a problem area for Ian. He waves like a champ now, and claps along with everybody else. I was surprised to see him attempt to clamber up into his car seat yesterday, when all I had done was set him in the car. (My Civic doesn’t quite have the room for me to plop him in the seat that Melissa’s 4-door Prius does, I end up having to truly get back there with him to set him in the seat.) He couldn’t quite make it up into the seat proper, but I found this particularly heartening because it (almost) helped me. Ian helping me. That’s pretty cool.

• A little more regularity for sleep. We get the idea that if this kid would stop teething we’d almost be on a normal schedule by now. (Said the Dada, knowing the Mama is probably getting up at all hours of the night every night and thinks Dada is full of doodoo.)

The “bad”: (if you can call it that I do realize that this was inevitable; he’s got to become a boy at some point, right?)
• A lot more fussing and straining to get out of arms, or in a mad attempt to dive off of the diaper changing station.

• A lot more crying and hitting.

• A lot more crazy stunts.

• A lot more trying something that’s wrong, watching for us to say “no!” and then doing it anyway, with a bigger smile on his face.

Anyway, so this all pre-dates Grandpa Dave and Grandma Marcia agreeing to watch the lil guy this upcoming weekend while Melissa and I scoot off to a wedding. I hope Ian has reserved a little good behavior for that particular night.

Movin’ On Up

I went with Melissa yesterday to see Ian experience his first drop-off in the new classroom. We were immediately directed up the hallway to an area where the newbies (Ian’s new classroom nickname) mingled with much older kids. We saw them all run around a table to some song about hunting a bear. In a way it looked harmless enough, but it did look a bit like “the running of the bulls,” and I saw one of the big kids push around one of the little kids and I can’t say I enjoyed that much. When the newbies got in their own classroom things returned to normal… he looked uncomfortable, but then pulled a plastic toy out of a toy oven, and then I nodded to Melissa. “He’ll be fine.” I’d like to note that we continue to be a little disappointed in this daycare, the possibility of Ian moving to a new daycare is pretty strong at this point.

More stories:
• About three days ago Melissa and I clapped to the beat of a song on a toy and Ian joined in for about 5 claps. Unremarkable, I guess, other than the fact that those claps were also to the beat and in rhythm.

• Last night during bath-time Ian started slam dunking his toy basketballs into a hoop and trying to say “SCORE!” It came out something like “GORE!” (Could he be trying to say “GOAL!” and “SCORE!” at the same time? It is a little more possible than you think… he learned “GOAL!” from a soccer ball toy.)

• Melissa and I admit to being crappy parents the other night. She was cooking, I was busy; we sat him on the dog-pillow and turned on a DVD we know he likes. It was creepy how affective it was. He sat there staring and didn’t even look away. We made a note not to do that to him too often.

• We took Ian to the doctor’s the other day for his usual check-up. In the lobby a little girl spotted Ian’s enthusiasm to see his mom, and decided she wanted to play. Ian’s not much of a thrower when it comes to rolling a ball back and forth. He tends to pick it up and hand it to you rather than roll it back. Anyway, suffice to say Ian had brought a ball and he was extremely kind and sharing with this girl that was borderline spastic. For the record, Ian weighed in at 23 lbs and is 32″ tall.

• The other day when I put Ian’s coat on him, I held the sleeve toward his arm… he transferred the ball in his hand to the other hand, by himself… worked the previously mentioned arm through the sleeve, reached over and grabbed the ball out of his other hand and readied his arm for the other sleeve. Working his arms into the sleeves is not new, but getting objects out of his hands is usually something he lets Melissa or I do.

Ian and I couldn’t make up our minds which hat he should wear… so we wore all three. What was even more amusing is he did NOT attempt to take this totem-pole of chapeaus off of his head until I removed them for him. See this image larger.

Getting a pat on the back already, I must be being a good daddy. See this image larger.

“I’m hunting wabbits.” Another shot… kinda Elmer Fudd-like. See this image larger.

Guess what word he’s saying here. Answer: “BAAAAAAAAWWWWLL.” See this image larger.

Turns out if I make a hiccup noise, he laughs. Which is great because I was able to catch this grin as a result. See this image larger.

Knock Softly And Carry a Big Sippy

Updates/observations:

• Today he was picking up his sippy cup and ramming it into the dining room table which is next to his high chair. KNOCK KNOCK KNOCK. I told him not to do that. He must have thought I had an issue with the noise, as I swear to you he did this: He slid a folded “burp” cloth toward him on the table, centering it in the area in question… and then rammed his sippy into that instead. Thud. Thud. Thud.

• He pointed at Seth today and said “kih-kih kih” which is his attempt at kitty cat.

• He has a tendency to spike his sippy onto the floor, however there’s a technique we’ve been using to both re-direct him and give him positive reinforcement… if he puts something in the correct spot we cheer and yell “score!” There’s a cupholder in the high chair tray, so that’s his scoring zone. Upstairs he tries to dunk his basketballs into the diaper champ. This is unfortunate on many levels. So again, if he puts the basketball in the basket-like holder as opposed to the diaper champ: SCORE!

• I was surprised to see him dip his spoon into a container I held and pick up a scoop… and plop it happily into his mouth, unassisted other than my aforementioned holding of the bowl of food. Melissa says this has been going on for some time, but I don’t let him try it enough on his own, I’m seeing. (Yours truly has to get over that whole “if I let him do this he’ll make a big mess” hurtle.)

• Yesterday I noticed he put the cap partially back on a pack of puffs… similar to a Pringles can, or a can of tennis balls if you know what I mean. It takes a delicate yet firm touch to pull it off of there, which he mastered early. Putting it back on takes some precise aim and he managed to line up the cap, which is pretty awesome, if you ask me… but even better…

• This morning he successfully removed the cap off of a container of puffs, pulled some out, ate some, put some back in, lined up the cap (like yesterday) but then he upped the ante by giving it a firm pat on the top to snap said lid in place. The proud grimace after the slap could be read as “what’s next?”

Sweet Sorrow

On Tuesday, Ian will be walking into daycare but going one door further down the hall, to the “newbie” classroom. We got a card today from the people who have cared for him in the infant room:

“Ian and Family,
We wiggled and giggled, sighed and cried, held and smelled, got wild and smiled, and best of all shared love with your child! Thank you for sharing Ian with us!”

And from each individual caregiver:

“Ian: Love to you – I will hunt you down and get hugs! – Mary”
“Loved his soft head and will watch his hair grow – Mr. Kevin”
“It won’t be the same without my little man 🙁 You have my number anytime you need me! Love and blessings, Miss Emily”
“We will all miss Ian! We’ll watch him grow through the window 🙂 Miss Amanda”

Ian’s also through most of his teething at the moment. He was in a great mood this afternoon… we gave him a half an apple just to see what he’d do with it, and he poked a lot of little tooth-holes in it.

Congratulations Schoenborn Family

Just wanted to write a quick note to say congratulations to Martin, Melissa and Isaac on the new family addition – Levi! Welcome aboard little guy!

Having a Ball

Here’s an update on everything, and plus we’ll take you outside our home to stomp around in the green-ish grass of Michigan.

• While reading Moo Baa La La La I asked Ian to say “La La La,” and said it slowly, showing him how my tongue touched the roof of my mouth. I was immediately rewarded with a “La La La” that sounded perfect, although as he often does, it was said in a gravelly low voice.

• I asked Ian to bring me his pair of white shoes so that we could go outside. I could tell by where he was looking and how excited he was that he knew what “outside” means. (Then again so does the cat, I suppose, but he’s got years on Ian.) Anyway, earlier in the day he had been running around the living room carrying one white, and one brown shoe, perhaps because I hadn’t been specific enough with him earlier. However, when I asked for the pair of white shoes, that’s what I got.

• He got to dig in some dirt with Mama.

• Pushing Ian around in a half-full laundry basket received numerous positive reviews in the form of wave after wave of giggles.

• General updates: Melissa is going back to working on Tuesdays temporarily as her work has become too much to allow otherwise for at least the next several months. An Ear/Nose/Throat doctor got some stuff out of my ear today. I’ll keep you updated on that, but I’m guessing that’ll solve my issues for now.

Attention potential babysitters: In the last few days this kid’s speed has gone up remarkably. Granted I used a little photoshop magic on this shot, but it isn’t too far from the truth. See this image larger.

Just chilling. “Hey Dada, your lawn could use some work.” See this image larger.

You can tell he loves the wide-open space. He’s not so fond of the full coat of sunscreen that he’s wearing, but he didn’t put nearly as much of a fuss as I would have. See this image larger.

We sometimes watch a DVD about the alphabet in which “C is for Conifer.” Here Ian points out the conifer in our yard. See this image larger.

The deck is extra fun, footsteps are stompy, balls get more bouncy, and besides all that it is an outdoor crib with steps… how can you beat that? See this image larger.

PLAYPLAYPLAYPLAY… pause for picture… PLAYPLAYPLAYPLAYSee this image larger.

His (cuter) blue cap didn’t come home from daycare last time… hopefully it is sitting there on Wednesday, as he looked really nice in it. See this image larger.

Sometimes as I’m walking or standing, I just drop the camera to about knee-height and pop a couple off hoping to get a nice shot… my eye is nowhere near the eyepiece on the camera at that point, of course. Sometimes they turn out nice. I like this one a lot. See this image larger.

Same kind of shot. Ian – “I’m going in this direction, please center me in viewfinder, thanks.” See this image larger.

It is almost unreal seeing your kid standing there so far away, walking up the street. See this image larger.

Alright Grandma Barb, name that poem! (Hint: Author’s initials are “SS”) See this image larger.

Me – “WOOHOO RUN KID RUN!!! (just for the love of God don’t fall!!!)” See this image larger.

Happy B-Day(s) Grandma Marcia and Great Grandma Betty!

We took a quick Saturday trip over to the east side of Michigan to see Grandma Marcia for her birthday, a couple days early. We had a wonderful meal and had a lot of fun. Here’s some pics to tell more of the story:

Give Grandma Marcia a birthday hug, little man! See this image larger.

“Little man” isn’t too far from the truth, either. Just look at him! Looks pretty confident in his walk, wouldn’t you say? See this image larger.

Grandpa Dave “was delighted to buy Ian presents for Marcia’s birthday.” Look, you and I know that doesn’t make sense, but you can tell it makes sense to Grandpa Dave when he says it. 😉 See this image larger.

Keep your eye on the ball! See this image larger.

Cool chair to be used up at the cottage this year, you bet! See this image larger.

The lattice-work you see there on the railing was a new addition, meant to keep “junior” from taking a head-first dive into the basement. Thanks Grandpa Dave!See this image larger.

Quick Ian, you’re happy and you know it! See this image larger.

The lyrics that they don’t tell you about in that song until after you’re a parent: If you’re teething and you know it, drool and cry… See this image larger.

Something To Chew On

Updates are scarce, sorry.

• Although two of the molars were part way through previous to the beginning of the measured time-period, in the last three and a half weeks Ian has popped five teeth. I could take video or pictures and put them up here, but to be honest when he’s in pain I find it hard to snap away pics or hide behind a video camera.

• One of my buddies online reminded me the other day by telling me “you got your wish…” Apparently at some point I told him that I’d gladly take Ian’s ear problems as my very own if it eased the little guy’s pain… plus I could explain my problem to a doctor, whereas getting Ian to explain his issues is a little more difficult. Anyway, so like he said, I got my wish. I’ve had some really interesting times recently, hearing my own blood pulsing through my eardrum, increased pain, one night in particular the room would spin whenever I laid down, etc. Went to an ENT specialist and it sounds like things are fine for the most part. I have another appointment in a week.

• Ian has a brand new habit of getting an entire mouth full of milk and then allowing it all to drain out onto his bib, or shirt, or whatever.

• Everybody in the house has had very little sleep the last many nights, apparently I’ve gotten the most out of all of us but had no idea, seeing as I was asleep.

• We got a letter from daycare last week saying that Ian will be moving up to the Newbie class. There will be no graduation ceremony for this particular move.

How Often Does This Kid Have To Get Clean, Anyway?

This is from a Saturday night bath this last weekend… Are these all starting to look the same? Let me know if there gets to be too many bath shots!

Hey, hey, this bathing thing is serious business, kid. You stop looking like you’re having so much fun, immediately! 😉 See this image larger.

Show everybody what you looked like with a fat lip the other night, lil man. See this image larger.

Mama gets something resembling that little DQ ice cream swirl in Ian’s hair with a quick twist of the finger. See this image larger.

“Woohoo! Bathtime Dada! High five!” (That’s not what this actually is a picture of, but you should see this kid high five now. Or clap for that matter.) See this image larger.

“Alright alright, I’m done here, where’s the exit?” See this image larger.

More Soon!

I’ve got s’more bath shots to share with you shortly. I apologize for the wait, I’ve been dealing with ensuring a more stable financial outlook.

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