My pictures got out of order. August 12th Ian went to a friend’s birthday party. This was a friend named Jacob from daycare; the last birthday party with a daycare classmate!
This is actually the same day as the pictures I took of Ian with his Mars Rover legos. Here’s Daddy with his favorite son and daughter! See this image larger.
Mommy and Daddy keep a careful eye on the stampede. Grandma Sue took the picture! See this image larger.
Nina continued to impress with her climbing skills. This ladder went up some 15 feet in the air. See this image larger.
Nina waited until all of the other little ones were clear, then fashioned all of the foam block toys into one ridiculously long train! It was pretty awesome! See this image larger.
August 16th, Nina tells Mommy a good night story. (I love Mommy’s hair short, but it sure doesn’t take me long to miss that pony tail!) See this image larger.
It was hilarious hearing Charlie try to explain to Ian in what way he’d have to squat and when he should catch the ball. There was still a little bit of running the wrong way when the ball was snapped! See this image larger.
August 26th, Nina in the sunroom, enjoys a little of the summer heat while it lasts. See this image larger.
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Chris’s memorial had many moments. I admit my camera didn’t take too many, and I apologize for that. My shutter finger just wasn’t working so well that day.
Suffice to say, a whole lot of people put time into getting there and making it happen. Grandma Marcia managed the whole thing and had it perfectly scheduled. That burden was mine and I could not bear it. Grampa Dave did a whole lot of carting people around, including us. Grandma Sue, Aunt Anne Marie and her parents came up all the way from Florida. Great Grandma Betty made it over despite the heat. Grampa Dave and Grandma Marcia’s friends Mary, and Pat and Eric all came to lend a hand as well. If I haven’t already said or sent a thank you; thank you to all of you for all of your hard work on a day when we all needed a little propping up.
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Once in a blue moon, I’ll write a journal entry. I started a journal a long time ago, and stopped when I met Melissa. When Ian was born I started writing something like that… they’re “someday” letters to him. I don’t even know if I’ll ever give them to him, honestly. August 13th inspired this entry — please forgive my straight-forward approach to writing in this format.
(Written on) August 15th – As you and your sister played in the hot August sun near the cottage, your mom and I were on a boat, carrying about 8 lbs of ashes with other family members. Those ashes were Uncle Chris at one point. My brother. I loved that guy more than you’ll ever know, and miss him almost as much. (Edited.)
It was nothing short of miraculous how well everything went that day, despite the sadness… the 13th of August, 2012. In your innocence, which still shines fairly bright in your five year old eyes, you don’t yet understand that seeing these people together at this place may not hold much significance to you, but to those of us who know a little better, it is pretty special. Did you notice Great Grandma Betty looked a bit sad? Her husband, who died when I was about your current age, was Great Grampa Eddie, that’s Grampa Dave’s father; Great Grampa Eddie died in the same waters in which Uncle Chris was laid to rest. Some of her tears were for Uncle Chris, but not all. I bet the same is true for Grampa Dave. In this family, we share a lot of laughter, and I think all of us tend to try to approach life with a sense of humor, but there has been a lot of loss too. I thought you should know.
I’ll tell you what it is like to lose a sibling, my kiddo. It is like losing half of your inner monologue. That little voice that you maybe find yourself explaining things to. Your sibling is the one person with which you can share certain secrets about your childhood, the one that remembers the goofy inside jokes that the family trades in giggles and eye rolls. That person leans looking for your support, and is in turn the strongest arm should you need it. Which is a great segue way back to the point — what is it like losing a sibling? It is like losing an arm. A thing you’ve grown used to looking at your entire life, grown to rely on — now gone. A one armed man can get by, but I don’t think it’s a mystery what he’d ask for if he had one wish.
Protect that sister of yours, Ian. Nina is more precious than you’ll be capable of realizing for years upon years. She is not the competition, she is home.
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Oops, August 12th, and More!
My pictures got out of order. August 12th Ian went to a friend’s birthday party. This was a friend named Jacob from daycare; the last birthday party with a daycare classmate!
This is actually the same day as the pictures I took of Ian with his Mars Rover legos. Here’s Daddy with his favorite son and daughter! See this image larger.
Nina plays with some of the foam blocks at the party. See this image larger.
Mommy and Daddy keep a careful eye on the stampede. Grandma Sue took the picture! See this image larger.
Nina continued to impress with her climbing skills. This ladder went up some 15 feet in the air. See this image larger.
Nina waited until all of the other little ones were clear, then fashioned all of the foam block toys into one ridiculously long train! It was pretty awesome! See this image larger.
Here’s Nina the engineer! (In more ways than one!) See this image larger.
Grandma takes a quick shot of Ian and the boys next-door! See this image larger.
August 15th, remember the shapes Grampa Dave made many moons ago? See this image larger.
Ian’s dynamite coloring job! See this image larger.
Daycare project for Ian. He put his initials on there. See this image larger.
August 16th, Nina tells Mommy a good night story. (I love Mommy’s hair short, but it sure doesn’t take me long to miss that pony tail!) See this image larger.
August 20th, Ian still looks peaceful and cute at five and half. See this image larger.
But he’s big, alright! See this image larger.
August 21st, Nina-bear! See this image larger.
Nina-flower! See this image larger.
Nina-girl! See this image larger.
August 23rd, Ian gets a postcard from his teacher-to-be! See this image larger.
August 24th, Ian’s final outing with his daycare, to one of our favorite parks! See this image larger.
Ian plays a little football with Charlie, a classmate. See this image larger.
It was hilarious hearing Charlie try to explain to Ian in what way he’d have to squat and when he should catch the ball. There was still a little bit of running the wrong way when the ball was snapped! See this image larger.
Charlie on the receiving team! See this image larger.
Nina decides to take a hike! See this image larger.
August 25th, Ian helps Mommy water the flowers! See this image larger.
So does Nina! See this image larger.
August 26th, Nina in the sunroom, enjoys a little of the summer heat while it lasts. See this image larger.
Other Images from August 13th
Chris’s memorial had many moments. I admit my camera didn’t take too many, and I apologize for that. My shutter finger just wasn’t working so well that day.
Suffice to say, a whole lot of people put time into getting there and making it happen. Grandma Marcia managed the whole thing and had it perfectly scheduled. That burden was mine and I could not bear it. Grampa Dave did a whole lot of carting people around, including us. Grandma Sue, Aunt Anne Marie and her parents came up all the way from Florida. Great Grandma Betty made it over despite the heat. Grampa Dave and Grandma Marcia’s friends Mary, and Pat and Eric all came to lend a hand as well. If I haven’t already said or sent a thank you; thank you to all of you for all of your hard work on a day when we all needed a little propping up.
Ian and Nina ready for travel! See this image larger.
Nina anticipating a boat ride. See this image larger.
Ian honored his Uncle Chris by wearing his Giants jersey. See this image larger.
And by doing something else I think we sometimes forget about… smiling. See this image larger.
There was play to be had! See this image larger.
Sometimes the best toys are the simple ones! See this image larger.
*I see you, Nina!* See this image larger.
Gathering family… See this image larger.
Gathering friends… See this image larger.
Kids making themselves at home. See this image larger.
We’re just not having fun until all the toys are out of the tub. See this image larger.
An accomplished color-er-er! See this image larger.
A quick shot with Aunt Annie, and then good-bye! See this image larger.
Redeployment – A Memorial for Chris
See this image larger.
Once in a blue moon, I’ll write a journal entry. I started a journal a long time ago, and stopped when I met Melissa. When Ian was born I started writing something like that… they’re “someday” letters to him. I don’t even know if I’ll ever give them to him, honestly. August 13th inspired this entry — please forgive my straight-forward approach to writing in this format.
See this image larger.