More Nina Grandparents, Part II

On January the 8th, 2010 Nina had another check-up with Dr. Bultje, with little to report, and in this case, no news is good news! See this image larger.

Grandma Barb holds Nina in one of her many outfits of the day, this one a catchy pink and white number with a luxurious purple evening blanket suited for a night out on any town. See this image larger.

Here Grampa Ray models with Nina in purple jumper wrapped in a formal white blanket with pink border, perfect for office meeting or interview. See this image larger.

January the 9th, 2010 turned out to be a major day for pictures! So for the rest of this entry we will focused on that day. Here, Ian and I snuggle up to play a quick game of “Cars.”

If 90% of your body is asleep, this is about how much you can smile, sorry folks.

Grampa Ray helps build a tunnel that Ian had fun spelunking! See this image larger.

There’s a little smile! She actually fussed for a total of two minutes just for fun…

…and quickly discovered that Grampa Ray makes for a good crib. See this image larger.

Meanwhile Ian took the ladies on a trip to downtown Rockford to see ice sculptures!

Pretty cool stuff down there!

Ian poses for a picture with Grandma Sue — all grins this early in the photoshoot! See this image larger.

Proud Mommy and baby girl! See this image larger.

This picture looks like the perfect time to proclaim that Ian is doing brilliant as an older brother. Ian has handled having to share his parents with the sort of grace that only the bravest of children could know. I imagine this would have to be very hard, and I often think of what I must have meant to my brother when I was first born. That said, here he wanted Nina the heck off of him. Pronto. See this image larger.

Grampa Ray proudly holds two of his grandkids, while Nina flashes Ian a peace sign. See this image larger.

Eventually there got to be too many clicks of the shutter and we started getting faces like this from Ian… See this image larger.

A bribe of c-a-n-d-y was offered by a certain parent of his in the room who shall go un-named but wasn’t me, and blammo, just look at that genuine smile! See this image larger.

However holding grandchildren is all it takes to bring a grin to these grandmas’ faces! See this image larger.

A bonus amount of coinage from a change purse was also supplied, and Ian made quick work of putting it all in his robot bank! See this image larger.

Meanwhile Grandma Sue sneaks in a quick hug with baby girl!

More Nina Grandparents, Part I

Sorry about the delay, folks… we’re trying to return to normalcy around here in many ways. Melissa and I actually got to see a movie the other night, on TV. Nina’s sleep schedule is getting to where we want it, almost. Lots to tell so let’s get to it!

Here’s a quick note to all the grandparents – please go get your camera right now, open up the settings, and make sure that the date and time are correct. You have my thanks if you do this for me, and here’s why: I try to do the blog in chronological order. Your camera stamps a time and date on each picture file. I can sort by that date. If the date is wrong, this is all for naught. Please help.

This first shot is way out of order with the rest of them, but I thought it would be important to show the bili blanket as the whole thing looked. In time I’m giving myself permission to move this picture with the rest of those that correspond to this topic. Nina doesn’t look happy, does she? See this image larger.

Grandma Sue showed up on January 4th, 2010 to meet Nina and see Ian again… this picture was taken on the 5th, as Ian listens with rapt attention to a Curious George story! See this image larger.

Ian and Mommy use their Dyson’s to clean up the house a bit.

They did a good job, no?

Grandma Barb and Grampa Ray arrived on the 6th to see our cute little bundle! For those trying to keep track of the continuity, it was this morning, a bit before Barb and Ray arrived, that we found out that Nina’s chromosome test came back normal. See this image larger.

We went out to eat at Cinqo de Mayo that night. Ian enjoyed a chip in some salsa, and showed off what a good little boy he can be at dinner! See this image larger.

Ian goes for a ride on a one-Ray open sleigh! See this image larger.

That night, and Grandma Sue takes Ian on another romp with George! See this image larger.

Word of Nina’s birth reaches Ian’s daycare. They were kind enough to make dinner for us one night later on in the week. These are good people. I’ll re-format this image someday so that it fits better. Apologies. See this image larger.

Nina’s flare for the dramatic surfaces all the time. See this image larger.

More soon, as I have time.

Start of a New Decade

January 1st, 2010 and we were all exhausted… whether from the waiting (chromosome test still not in at that point) or the holding of little Nina at odd hours of the night. That sun looks a little bright, huh Nina? See this image larger.

January 2nd, Nina is being bathed in the sun’s rays from above, and the bili-blanket from beneath. As I mentioned elsewhere, her numbers dropped throughout the first week of the new year. See this image larger.

Slightly different angle. See this image larger.

Another slightly different angle. See this image larger.

It was the 3rd when Grampa Dave and Grandma Marcia headed back for their side of the state, weary from an extended stay that none of us expected… but highly welcomed. You both kept us sane, bless you.

On January 4th, our first car trip as a family of four! See this image larger.

January 5th… somebody looks worried that this is going to last longer than a photo-shoot. See this image larger.

Grandma Sue, Grandma Barb, and Grampa Ray’s visit next entry… and the Kunze gang visits shortly thereafter so get ready for lots of pics coming soon!

End of a Decade

On the 29th of December, while Grampa Dave and Grandma Marcia entertained Ian… See this image larger.

Seth seemed to keep himself busy, watching the fish go by! See this image larger.

Grampa Dave takes Ian for a “drag” around the house despite being very tired. (Did I mention they are building next to us?) See this image larger.

There was fun to be had in warmer places as well! Sorry about the lack of Grandma Marcia pictures in this entry… she was a blur, doing things around the house! Thanks again!!!) See this image larger.

By this time Ian had seen his sister many times. Was this maybe the first time Nina got a clear vision of her brother? See this image larger.

…and an even clearer vision of Lucky! See this image larger.

Soon we prepped Nina for her first trip to the physician’s office. See this image larger.

As Dr. Bultje was not in town when Nina was born, this was their first meeting. See this image larger.

Our physician looked at Nina and said her Jaundice was maybe a “15 out of 20” where “20” required hospitalization, and anything above 15 would mean it was time for the bili blanket to bring the number back down. See this image larger.

We were at Home Depot purchasing a new clothes washer when I got the phone-call that Nina’s number was actually an 18 out of 20, and that the bili blanket was on its way to our house. This is what it looks like, it is a flat pad at the end of a length of optical cable, that becomes lit when the machine is on. The light helps her break down and get rid of the stuff that’s making her yellow with jaundice. Sunlight also helps, which is why that “soak up the sun” song was appropriate for the video. See this image larger.

The blanket did not make for a good sleeping surface, so Nina was up a lot. She wanted to be held. Everybody took shifts throughout the week. On the 30th, while Ian was being watched, it was time for Nina’s cardiologist appointment. I ignored about 32 signs that said to turn off my cell phone so that I could snap this picture. Look at how many sensors they put on her! See this image larger.

This was also the appointment where a 45 minute ultrasound in silence was followed by the prognosis that Nina’s heart had some serious issues, and the potential for a Down’s Syndrome baby was first described. The cardiologist drew out this picture for us and compared it to a drawing of a normal heart. See this image larger.

After the cardiologist appointment, we went to our physician’s for a quick blood-draw to check Nina’s levels, however our physician was able to get us in to see somebody at the hospital to do both the jaundice AND chromosome test. The jaundice test put Nina up at 19.6… (as you’ll see this turned out to be the peak, and her numbers came down over the next few days, and the chromosome test results took a long, long week, and came back “normal.”)

Our (Late) Christmas, Part II

The morning of the 28th was our late version of Christmas. The birth of Nina and Ian’s excitement of the morning made for a happy day indeed!

The bold general of a one-man unwrapping army surveys his battlefield, and envisions the wrapping paper carnage to follow. See this image larger.

Somewhere there’s a piggy bank in an unemployment line as a result of this robot. Welcome to Michigan! See this image larger.

Ian graduated from “mega” to “duplo” blocks… It seems like only yesterday he was facing backwards in his car seat. See this image larger.

Nina watches from the safety of her bouncy chair as packages are torn asunder. See this image larger.

Froggy towel approves of SuperWhy’s Super Duper Computer! See this image larger.

Daddy performs the “hip hip hooray” dance from SuperWhy. See this image larger.

Ian was mesmerized by the left-turn action of this light/aquarium. (Which he loved!) These fish turn left more than NASCAR drivers! See this image larger.

A stuffed animal puppy for Nina… “Lucky,” and boy is she! See this image larger.

His mouth is forming the “een” of Lightning McQueen. See this image larger.

His mouth is forming the “whyyyyyy” of SuperWhy. See this image larger.

I think everybody that saw these little trains fell in love with them. It wasn’t so much their scale as the number of features built into them given such a size. They chugged, whistled, hissed, and lit up! See this image larger.

The best Christmas gift ever, as held by Grandma Marcia. See this image larger.

The best Christmas gift ever, as held by Grampa Dave. See this image larger.

Mommy and the loves of her life. See this image larger.

Intermission (Soak Up the Sun)

Let’s take a moment and honor Nina’s battle with Jaundice, which our physician says we have won. A little battle, but one that’s over, and that’s important. How to beat it? A bili-blanket, a lot of love, and… well… see the video!

Click here to see the video. It is 5 MB in size, which isn’t too bad.

Our (Late) Christmas, Part I

I want to thank everybody for their kind comments on the blog, and also there’s a lot of people to thank for other forms of generosity during what has been a trying time.

Here’s how the rest of December looked, in pictures… the first a bonus picture that really belongs in an earlier entry.

This is it. This is the definitive picture of Ian meeting Nina. Melissa was in bed, my arms were full and so were Marcia’s… Grampa Dave pulled off this picture and so this is it! (Earlier pictures that I posted were either of their second meeting, or minutes after this one was taken. See this image larger.

December 27th was our Christmas Eve, as everything had been postponed due to a little surprise visitor! Here she’s prepped and ready to head home… her first trip in a car seat! See this image larger.

My sleeping beauties! See this image larger.

When Ian looks this bored watching “Tad’s Christmas” for the 40th time, you know we’ve all pretty much got it memorized! See this image larger.

Grampa Dave happily inspects the first female Chapman (that didn’t marry into the name) in 4 generations. (I think.) See this image larger.

I know that someday she’ll emerge as a beautiful butterfly! See this image larger.

Something scared the mittens right off of her! See this image larger.

At this point, we were all blissful and tired… more in Part II!

Nina – The full story…

Where to begin? Well, how about the beginning? The dates don’t make sense. Really if the due date that the fancy measuring devices came up with are to be believed, Nina was either conceived while Grandma Sue was in town (not bloody likely!) or while Melissa was still on birth control.

And then there was the half-time show. June 27th, in the middle of the night, Melissa sounded panicked in another room of her sister’s house and my gut dropped out from under me. I don’t need to get into detail here, but there was a convincing argument that we had lost our little baby girl, and I think the idea of this tore into Melissa and I both. I think I aged about 10 years in one night, and Melissa probably went through something similar, at least on the inside. The doctor we saw in the ER didn’t really even give our little girl a 50% chance — even when the ultrasound showed a fetus literally waving hello. I was so scared that she was waving good-bye, I didn’t even feel like I could tell anybody. I read up on what had happened and was heartened to hear that some people had gotten through this just fine. We prayed. Family and friends prayed.

But when we drove home shortly thereafter, a nurse gave us some bad news. The pregnancy hormone in Melissa system, which should have gone up had instead dropped to levels that caused the nurse to simply give up and say, “I’m sorry.” Again Melissa and I hung our heads and hearts low — we’re not the kind to be reactive to opinions, but medical professionals were telling us we weren’t going to make it, and it was hard not to believe them. We prayed. Family and friends prayed.

(There’s a lot more to the story, but to save the blog page from being too long, I’ve “split” the page… just click here for more –> ) Read more

December in a Flash, Part I of II

I want to thank you all for your prayers and thoughts regarding Nina… The short of the story at this point is that her chromosome test came back “normal” and we can focus on praying for her heart, which is a major issue to contend with still — we’re not out of the woods yet, but some of the scariest trees are already behind us. More about this in the entries to follow, I promise. For now I’ve got a lot of catching up to do, so we need to turn the clock back to the beginning of December! (I know, you’re not happy with that, sorry!)

NOTE: This entry will be moved shortly to its appropriate place chronologically.

December 4th, and Ian wakes up to a rude surprise! See this image larger.

“Wha?” See this image larger.

Snow! And like six inches of it, all at once! See this image larger.

Am I the only person that thinks there are miniature Marge Simpsons outside the window? See this image larger.

December 6th. Those breakdancing lessons are really paying off. See this image larger.

December 7th. That hat doesn’t fit anymore, silly! See this image larger.

December 17th. Ian’s daycare’s Christmas program… someday I’ll have video. I’m afraid you may not find it all that interesting, as Ian decided on the way to the concert that “I’m not gunna sing.” See this image larger.

December 18th. *Daddy, this present is flat. It can’t be any good.* See this image larger.

With the wily grace of an elephant, Ian attempts to pilfer somebody else’s cookie. Not yet, kiddo. See this image larger.

Story time! See this image larger.

During the book exchange, Ian managed to pick a Curious George book, which was great because he has been on a George kick lately. (He loves the books, not the TV show, believe it or not.) See this image larger.

*Nuthin’ up my sleeve…* See this image larger.

“CANDY!” See this image larger.

*More?* See this image larger.

Finally, Ian gets his cookie! See this image larger.

Nina Noel, Part III: Homecoming

Finally the morning of the 27th dawned, and it was time for Nina to come home. See this image larger.

I remember this part with Ian as well… the clock strikes the time at which you should be allowed to go home, and you have to wait for somebody to check you out and tell you things. See this image larger.

With Ian I think I packed up my camera and un-packed it a few times. With Nina I kept it out until the last minute. See this image larger.

Diaper looks a little big on her doesn’t it? See this image larger.

And finally to the car seat… See this image larger.

…and home. This is not the first time Ian saw his little sister, nor the first time he touched her — but it did look like the first time he understood a little bit about what was truly going on here. Love this picture. See this image larger.

The traditional kitty/baby photo.. thanks Grandma Marcia for catching this one! See this image larger.

The bouncy chair returns! See this image larger.

Welcome home, little girl. See this image larger.

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